Long period of wishful thinking ,which heartily stimulates the daughter to meet her mother, ended with happiness.
Young Thai baby called Somi was adopted by a missionary couple Morrie Palmer from the United State .
She was taken from her home in a small village in Udon Thani province since 1973.
Suan, the teenage mother of Somi, put her new baby up for adoption at an office of the US Air Force in the provincial capital .In Minnesota, and later in Nebraska, Somi grew into a typical, normal US child, then teenager, then woman.
Her family and siblings loved her.
But she was not typical.And life was not normal.
“From the age of five, from my very first memories, what I remember is that I was different.
Life was difficult.
I didn’t belong.
“When she was at the age of 12 “I couldn’t talk to Asian kids because they all spoke their own language, Somi recalled .
“Some of the boys and girls wouldn’t talk to me because of my dark skin “she said.
“Some of the kids like me, but their parents told them they had to stay away from me because I was different, I was darker .
The right to pursue happiness was continually snatched away from the adopted Thai.She felt isolated outside her immediate family.
“I really craved friendship or just attention. It was terrible .I started to do destructive things”, she said, to get that attention-nothing violent, but unpleasant to remember.
But this is not a sad story.
Somi’s life took to a decided turn for the better, and not too many years later she was happily married to an American man, Jay from Fort Collins in northern Colorado.
Her wonderful husband said “Well, we have the means, so if you want we can go to Thailand and find your family.” So the newly married couple picked Thailand as their honeymoon destination.
Her adoptive parents had kept her birth certificate,identifying the original hometown and name of her mother, Ms Suan.
But she set out to discover her roots and find her blood relatives, all she had was that piece of paper and to resolve to satisfy her desire to discover her roots and remove a lifetime of hurt.
In days, hours really, the fears,objections and difficulties faded.
The mother and the daughter walked up to each other and gave each other a big hug.
“I was so happy to have found her ,but there were so many emotions going on right then, I didn’t know which one to feel.” said Somi.
The older people checked her fingers, they all remembered baby Somi had beautiful long fingers.
There were tears,and many cheers.
Life will never be the same for Somi Palmer.
She has dug deeply into her past, discovered her true roots,and struggles with a dual identity.
It is not the big stuff that bothers her so much.
She knew that she was different from her earliest, childhood memories.
All of that is part of the life with which she has struggled openly.
“I am so relieved. For 35 years I felt guilt, giving up my daughter for adoption, even though I knew I could not look after her.
So young, and my husband left me.
And for most of that time, I thought she was dead.
I don’t know where that story came from, but it’s not true, that is so great.
And now my daughter has come back.
I am so happy.
She is healthy.
She is successful.
And such a woderful daughter, not one time did she want to know why I gave her up for adoption.
She understands me so well. “Somi is back in Colorado, almost exactly halfway round the Earth.
She cannot just pack up and move to Thailand as she sometimes dreams.
She has family in the US and that complicates things somewhat.